tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3731199254031995617.post4179275788494903570..comments2023-09-26T09:35:39.891-04:00Comments on Tammy's Thoughts: EggshellsStrongblkwmnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01943807196468824583noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3731199254031995617.post-27744375492062463692010-01-20T14:07:14.727-05:002010-01-20T14:07:14.727-05:00Ratique and Daddy are the ones leaving the STUPID ...Ratique and Daddy are the ones leaving the STUPID eggshells in the carton. I HATE THAT! Ahhhhhhhh!Lamikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03376162105313812657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3731199254031995617.post-40034736795607146422009-05-03T18:31:00.000-04:002009-05-03T18:31:00.000-04:00I'm sorry, I'm one of those people but since I liv...I'm sorry, I'm one of those people but since I live alone, there is no one to tell me it bothers them (smile) Now I will stop. <br /><br />I'm so very happy that you are enjoying this life, it's the only one you get!<br /><br />Love, live, laugh and write (LOL)<br />free spirit butterflyA Free Spirit Butterflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15875209868146874354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3731199254031995617.post-62974469265985500942009-04-28T14:33:00.000-04:002009-04-28T14:33:00.000-04:00I'm not surprised you got so much from that sis. Y...I'm not surprised you got so much from that sis. You're the good kind of deep. Just the words' "brokens shells in a carton" bring a lot of people to mind. <br /><br />See ya on FBSLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06730433154344252585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3731199254031995617.post-73345564581530712962009-04-28T14:00:00.000-04:002009-04-28T14:00:00.000-04:00Carey - I agree with so much of your comment that ...Carey - I agree with so much of your comment that I can't really pinpoint anything. I will say that asking yourself what you're afraid of is something that I have found to be extremely important. I'm learning how to feel the fear, and go for it anyway.<br /><br />SLC - Glad you liked the post. I couldn't believe that I got so much feeling from some broken shells in a carton.Strongblkwmnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01943807196468824583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3731199254031995617.post-63021991830740065842009-04-27T16:29:00.000-04:002009-04-27T16:29:00.000-04:00Love this post sis.
Actually, I need this post. I'...Love this post sis.<br />Actually, I need this post. I'm still a little too careful with some people; sometimes to their detriment.<br />Thanks for the lesson.<br />See ya on FB.<br /><I>SLC</I>SLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06730433154344252585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3731199254031995617.post-65769861507048694112009-04-27T15:08:00.000-04:002009-04-27T15:08:00.000-04:00Hello
I love coming by your spot because you do n...Hello<br /><br />I love coming by your spot because you do not always say what you are doing right, you choose to say what you might need to change ...that's big.<br /><br />I facilate a "class" in which I sometimes tell those in attendance that on this day, they are not allowed to say what they are doing right. This forces them to look at the real issues that they need to change. Anybody can talk about the "good" stuff, but few wish to go deeper, it's uncomforatable.<br /><br />I have a good friend that is just like you. She was in essence one of the eggs in the shell with all the mess of the cracked eggs around her. Like you, she didn't want to hurt others feelings by not being there for them or saying something that would make them mad at her, even if it was at the expense of her own stuffed feelings or emotions. <br /><br />I asked her what she was really affraid of. She didn't quite understand the question. See, it wasn't really about hurting their feelings, it's about protecting our own. As long as we allow others to drag us into mess by not sharing how we really feel about a situation, they will continue to do as they've always done and they remain our friends. We didn't upset them but "WE" are left with the baggage. For the most part, we all want to be liked, but at what cost? Sure, most will say they don't care what others think about them but that is a big lie. Unconsciously they are lying to themselves. Of course there's a time,place and manner in which one should voice their opinion/complaint but growth comes from the understanding of what thoughts,feelings and emotions are behind why we are afraid to stand on "right".<br /><br />Keep thinking my friend. The answers are within us. You're doing good. <br /><br />Self honesty is the key. Most never get there. They might find that they can no longer project their problems onto someone else, as if it's all the other persons fault. It's deep but it's real.<br /><br /><br />Soooooo, my suggestion would be that you calmly tell those that left those nasty eggs in the carton to never do that again because you do not like it.<br /><br />If the issue changes to "yeah butts" don't go there. Simply bring it back to the nasty eggs.<br /><br />Don't let your emotions rule you ...that's the key, finding out what real emotions are in play in everything we do.<br /><br />Okay, that's it ...I'll be sending my bill in the mail *lol*CareyCareyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08832737883766894892noreply@blogger.com