Tuesday, July 28, 2009
My Name is Tammy....and i love to shop!
I feel like shopping. I keep telling myself that I don't need to spend anymore money but I don't feel like listening. The stores are calling me. My bills are paid and I have a roof over my head, so who am I hurting?
So I don't have anymore room in my closet......so what! My husband bought me those special contraptions that I have the space for five hangers but I hang ten.....so what! I make sure to close my closet at night because I don't want to hear my husband talking crap, or shaking his head, because my closet is so full.....so what! That doesn't mean there's a problem. I certainly don't have a shopping issue. I can stop any time I want.
I have a thing for handbags. Anyone who knows me will tell you that. So what! I like my bag to match my outfit. I'm not one of those women who carry the same one no matter what they have on. I break out into a sweat when I see a beautifully made pocketbook. So what! It's my husband's fault. He bought me my first Gucci bag about nineteen years ago and I was hooked. I was on a designer kick for a little while but once we had our second child I downgraded. See, I have control. So what I don't have anymore room for my pocketbooks. I'm going to buy another one this weekend. Does that mean I have a problem?
I dreamt of buying a purple Kooba bag last night, but anyway...
I can stop any time I want to. Does it matter that i'm online shopping when I should be working? It's not my fault. Why do they send me those damned catalogs in the mail? I get so many of them that my mail must be checked every day so that the mailman doesn't have to stuff things inside. Should I be blamed for looking through the catalogs and finding sales? I've become the queen of coupon codes. I never pay full price. That's a good thing right?
My husband suggested we rent a storage room to have a place where we could put the things we might not be using but need a place for. As of right now it's full of my winter clothes. I swap when the seasons change. I look at all the bags and boxes and I know that it's too much. I mean, my clothes aren't the only things there but they take up a whole lot of room.
Well, I'm a woman. I like clothes, and shoes, and especially handbags. I need to have choices. My choices are vast. Does that mean I have a problem? I say no. I'm a woman.
The other night I dreamt of gladiator sandals and crocodile Coach bags.
Okay, so I might have a bit of an issue. We're in a recession and I have made the decision not to shop so much. So, I did buy a blouse online this morning but that was my last purchase of the summer, well, after I buy the handbag I saw at Macy's. Yeah, that will be my last purchase of the summer. I love shopping. It's a fun stress reliever. I may do a little too much of it but I can stop any time I want to, really I can.
My name is Tammy and.....I may be on my way to buy a pair of shoes...(It's my co-workers fault. She wants me to go with her to Steve Madden)
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6 comments:
This is funny...........only because my wife isn't reading it and getting fresh ideas. I already know the trunk of her car is off limits. Her 40th birthday is Saturday so I think I'm going to get that purple bag.
Thanks for the idea.
SLC
Admitting it is the first step. You took a Big girl pill (smile)
You also said you can stop whenever you want to, twice (LOL)
In any event, do what makes you happy in Moderation!
If I had a two income family, my name may have been in the post (smile)
If I do feel a shopping binge, I try to give away something!
Love and hugs
China
SLC - Hope your wife has a wonderful birthday. I knew something might not be right when I started sneaking bags in the house so I wouldn't have to hear my husband's mouth. LOL! I don't drive but if I did i'm sure my trunk would be off limit too.
Butterfly - Moderation is the key. I make sure the bills are paid and I can afford what i'm buying. I don't want to turn into a total shopaholic. I'm proud that I finally allowed myself to give away the stuff I knew I didn't need and it made me feel good to know that it would go to someone who needed it.
We share the passion of writing, but shopping you can have. I completely dislike to shop. YUCK!
"I can stop any time I want to." Classic addict statement.
Lamika - I know. LOL!
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